You find it irritating when someone comes up with one good idea after another, yet doesn’t follow through on any of them. You wish they would think less and do more, but everyone else seems to be enamored with conversations about all the fascinating possibilities ahead. You want to put a stop to the endless chatter but hesitate to say anything for fear of being judged negatively today. Fortunately, you can simply remove yourself from the discussion and quietly get on with your work. Socrates wrote, “The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new.”

Weekly Love Horoscope

You might have quite a difficult time this week communicating with your partner. It seems as if you can't say anything that's right. In fact, you might even feel as if your partner is criticizing your ideas to the point where your feelings are truly hurt. As a result, you might go into hermit mode and literally refuse to talk to your partner at some point this week -- especially near Saturday. If you decide to resort to giving your partner the silent treatment, then understand that it's probably only going to make the situation worse. Nothing can be resolved if no one's talking.

Monthly Horoscope

Are you feeling stuck in a relationship rut? Have you and your partner become so caught up in your routines that you're both completely asleep at the wheel when it comes to nurturing the romance, passion, and excitement in your love connection? If so, it's time for a change. There's no point trying to resist it either, Scorpio, because ready or not, here it comes. This month there will be a monumental shift in the cosmic sky that just might turn your relationship upside down. Some might call it an earthquake. Others, a revolution. Either way, it's Uranus. This planet of instability, excitement, and sudden developments will move through your relationship sector from May 15 through November 6, giving you a sneak peek into the massive changes your marriage or committed partnership is likely to experience once Uranus takes up a more permanent residency (at least for several years) in your 7th house, starting in 2019. You might grow so tired of the way things are between you and your partner that one or both of you demand to become unchained from the restrictions of your union. One of you might decide to step out of the marriage or commitment into the arms of another person. Or, it's possible that you'll just decide to take a break from each other and agree to a trial separation. If things have been truly impossible, then Uranus in the 7th house might very well signal the end of your marriage. On the flip side, however, if you are dating someone special, it's possible that you'll make a sudden decision to commit to each other. Las Vegas wedding anyone? A New Moon in your partnership sector on the same day that Uranus enters it will guarantee a new path in one way or another. Your home and family life might also endure a bit of tension this month. On May 16 Mars will move into your domestic 4th house and won't be leaving any time soon. His upcoming retrograde over the summer will have him firmly planted in this part of your chart until November 15. Yikes! That's a long time to have to navigate a home environment that resembles a war zone, so you might want to do what you can to direct the Martian energies of conflict and war elsewhere. A home renovation project will do the trick. Hopefully. If not, the problems at home are most likely related to the conflict between you and your mate. Remember the big picture Scorpio: sometimes everything needs to fall apart so that something better can fall together. May could very well be your "Tower" moment. You might not see what's around the corner just yet, but if you keep walking, eventually, you'll get there.
You probably already feel this, Scorpio, but just in case you didn't get the memo yet: everything about your love life is about to change. Everything. The most unnerving part of this process for someone like you -- someone who likes to be in control -- is that you will never know what's about to happen next. Your love life is about to become a suspenseful page-turner and there is never going to be one set ending to this story. You can thank Uranus for that. On May 15 he'll move into your partnership sector for the first time in 84 years, and will begin a process of completely revamping your approach to marriage and commitment. If you're in a relationship, it's quite possible that you and your partner are feeling a certain type of itch that needs to be scratched. You might feel bored or stuck in a rut. Perhaps you've been married for a long time and the spark has gone away. Or, it's possible that you have outgrown each other but up until now, neither one of you has been willing or able to make a change. If you or your mate are unhappy -- for whatever reason -- then it is possible one of you will make a sudden exit. You might find yourself in a trial separation or discover information about your partner that completely shocks you. Whatever the details are, recognize that the urge behind all of this erratic behavior is a self-imposed need to wreck stability in order to feel alive again in terms of love and partnership. This goes for both of you. The challenge? To decide over the next several months whether or not you can continue to feel alive in each other's arms. If you're a single Scorpio, get ready for excitement in your love life that is unstable but will certainly provide you with a complete awakening. You might find yourself in the most stimulating relationship of your life, only to feel incredibly frustrated when you realize you've fallen in love with a butterfly. Remember: there's no room for control in your partnership life anymore, Scorpio. Make peace with this reality and you just might find this to be a time of great personal awakening.
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